It was an interesting week in the Meyer family. When picking Gracie up from preschool on Wednesday, the teacher said to Jenny, “I need to speak with you privately.” You know that’s not going to be good.
Apparently when it was time to stand up and wish a peer ‘happy birthday,’ Gracie decided to stay seated with a friend of hers who also refused to stand. The teachers are aware of the other girls stubborness, but when they saw Grace still sitting, they said again, “Gracie, don’t you want to stand up and wish Jonathan a happy birthday?”
Gracie looked at her friend, and said, “no.”
Now if you could have called Jenny on her cell phone right at that moment, I think it would have been like the scene in A Christmas Story when Ralph’s mother calls his friend’s house to report that the boys were cursing.
I was home for the afternoon when they came back, and Jenny just said, “we need to talk about Grace.” I thought about running back to work, which certainly would have been more fun than anything Jenny was about to share following that statement.
Consequences for Gracie: a time-out, having to make an apology to her teachers, and she had to throw out her birthday cupcake from Jonathan. When getting her consequences, she was completely on-board. ‘Time out?” Check. “Apology?” Check. “Throw out the cupcake?” Whyyyy? Nooooo! Waaaa! “But what did I do!!?”
The next school day, the Teacher came out and said to Jenny, “We had a really good day today.” Which ticks Jenny off even more since she now has to get a behavior update each day. It was also another child’s birthday, and more cupcakes were given out. This time, just to be safe, Gracie stuffed the cupcake in her mouth as quickly as possible, before she even walked over to Jenny!
Think the story ends there? Nope. Our first ever bad behavior report from school was followed the next day with a knock on our back door. It was the neighbor (a mother of one of Emma’s schoolmates), who asked, “Has Emma’s principal called you guys?”
Apparently, four of the kids on the bus, Emma included, were given assigned seats because of horse play–two weeks ago! No one told us. Certainly not Emma. It is just great to know that you children can figure out in first grade what not to self-report. So of course, the kids kept it up, to the point that they were sent to the office. Jenny was very upset because she says ‘hello’ to the bus driver every day before and after school. Plenty of opportunities to share that Emma was heading down the long winding road of delinquency.
As soon as the neighbor left, Emma came slinking into the room saying, “Ummm, I have to tell you something…” Yep, that scene from A Christmas Story, second time in two days.
Consequences for Emma: No TV the rest of the night and the following morning, and sitting a the dining room table until bedtime writing two apology letters, one for the principal and one for the bus driver. She then delivered the apologies with mom by her side the next day.